Friday, March 28, 2008

Scarf du jour

Another Paris scarf. I bought this one from one of those touristy shops on the Rue Rivoli near the Louvre. I love the colors, and it's a very lightweight scarf, but not one meant for daily wear. The tassels on the end are coming unravelled, and the threads in the shirring snag on everything and get pulled loose. Like a chain-smoking debutante, this one will go downhill quickly. Still, it's one of my favorites.

Don't be shocked, but une femme is a bit of a late bloomer; it's only been in recent months that I've become comfortable accessorizing with scarves, and it's taken a good bit of practice and time for me to get there. I've never been one for adornment that requires much fussing; "slap it on and go" tends to be more my inclination. Combine that with living in a climate where scarves are rarely a necessity, and you have the makings of a scarf klutz. While achieving a chic effect is more of an art than a science, repeated experimentation is the key to making it look effortless. After much trial and error, I've found a few trusty ways to tie and wear my scarves that feel comfortable and don't make me look like the Queen Mum.

Long rectangular scarves tend to be the easiest to work with. For square silk scarves, I've relied heavily on the Hermès tutorial booklets, tips from the ladies at The Purse Forum, and doing Internet searches on scarf tying (which incidentally, is one of the most common searches that leads visitors to this blog). I've also collected a few scarf rings, which expand the options, and make it easy to create the illusion of a v-neck and a more vertical line. I still tend to stay away from the knots that would qualify one for a Girl Scout merit badge, however!

17 comments:

Sue said...

What a lovely scarf. The colours are very flattering against your skin.

I'm rediscovering scarves myself. I've recently picked up a few silk bargains on eBay. (No Hermès -- out of my league, I'm afraid, to say nothing of the fakes that abound.) Now I just have to wear them. I'll welcome any of your scarf posts with open arms.

La Belette Rouge said...

I want scarf lessons from you when I am in L.A. next month. I have only three ways of wearing a scarf: 1) the loop; 2) the shawl look; 3) slap on and go. It looks like I will be there the last week of April. I will be glad to have a lesson. Paris grows closer by the day!

Deja Pseu said...

sue - thank you. I'll be happy to do more scarf postings.

LBR - Late April it is. We can trade our scarf and red lipstick secrets!

Belle de Ville said...

What I like about scarves is that if you take care of them they will last for years.
I still have scarves that I bought for my first job out of college....and I still wear them...and that was a long time ago....

Deja Pseu said...

belle - yes, I still have some silk scarves that were my grandmother's which are AT LEAST 40-50 years old, and they still look wonderful. (and I still wear them!)

Duchesse said...

Love that I never can't fit into a scarf! The one you're wearing is a beautiful colourway, wonder if there is any way to rehab it.. or just wear it, you're going to be back in Paris soon!

Devoted to wearing scarf (here in Toronto that's 10 months of the year) or tie on bag if too hot.

Miss Janey said...

Miss J Loooves it. Such gorgeous colors.

dana said...

"Like a chain-smoking debutante"
I wish I'd written that!

Thanks for the scarf hunting tips. Due to schedule craziness (3 kids under 5, day job, night and weekend-working husband), I almost never hit the shops. I'm all virtual these days.

Deja Pseu said...

Hmm, maybe I'll do some more research and a post on online sources for scarves. I ended up ordering one of the ones I saw at Overstock.com, will let you know how I like it. I figure for $35, it was a risk worth taking. :-)

Duchesse at www.passagedesperles.blogspot.com has a favorite online seller for larger shawl scarves too.

cybill said...

I love the scarf, I own lots of beautiful scarves, but when I try to wear one I just feel its not "me". It doesnt help that my husband has been known to say "more peanuts please hostess" during my scarf attempts.

GirlGriot said...

The colors and all the shirring business are lovely. It may not wear well, but if you've worn it well, surely that makes up for the short shelf-life.

I used to wear scarves much more than I do now. I was overly fond of the tack-it-down-with-a-brooch style ... which was quickly augmented with the tack-it-down-with-the-wacky-pin-from-a-rock-concert-or-flea-market style. I've still got a few dozen, but really only wear a handful of them these days.

Shefaly said...

Dejapseu:

Pretty scarf but I can see the tassels misbehaving. Quel dommage! Many 'pashmina' (quotes because many really are not) mini-shawls available in the UK have tassels like that and people use them like scarves.

BTW those 'girl guide knots' are the rage in Switzerland. :-) I have however always failed to see the point of a scarf knotted like that in extremely cold climates. It does reduce the scarf to a decorative piece rather than a combination of the useful and the pretty..

Carolina Lange said...

Wow, that is a beautiful scarf!

Dea said...

"Like a chain-smoking debutante, this one will go downhill quickly."


Bwahahahahahahahahahaha

Love this analogy!

Anonymous said...

Thank you for this post! When I read your sweater post I wished for the same on scarves - I agree that long rectangles are the easiest, and I remain stuck with big squares. I don't wear them at all out of frustration, or do the Boy/Girl Scout and grit my teeth. Now I know where else to go for advice.

Duchesse said...

You Tube has a bunch of videos on scarf tying, just search it. I have not watched them. Also, think it has been mentioned whe Pseu got her Hermes piece- the Hermes web site has [posted its book in two pdf's.

sunny said...

Beautiful scarf! And that is the way I wear mine most often. The other way I wear it is folded in half, looped around my neck and then the loose ends pulled through the loop end. Great on cold days.

I am not one for a more "formal" way of wearing scarves..but in January discovered the two ways I feel comfy in tossing on a scarf. So much fun!